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Dear Rabbi Paris and Reverend Kessler,

From the moment we met you we knew that our wedding ceremony would be special, but we did not anticipate how amazing the journey would be creating it with you. You exceeded our every expection not only in the beautiful, personal, spiritual ceremony you performed but also in the experience of getting to know you. Your support and guidance has helped us grow spiritually both as individuals and as a couple. Your love and respect for each other, and your advice on how to make an interfaith marriage and family thrive have been such an inspiration to us. You are two truly special people and we feel so blessed to have you in our lives.

Many of our family and friends have said ours was the best wedding ceremony they have ever witnessed.

Love,

Mara & Geoff

 

Mara & Geoff, 09/2008

"We can't thank you enough for making our ceremony so special.  You were a huge part of our most important day and we look forward to continuing in this tradition.  You can't get rid of us now."

Maria and Roman, 11/2007

"Andrew and I thought for awhile about what kind of ceremony we were going to have. We wanted to have a ceremony that included both of our faiths and reflected our loving relationship. From the moment we met you both we knew that you were exactly what we were looking for. We want to thank you for all of your guidance and commitment to creating a ceremony that fit our needs perfectly! Our family and friends are still raving that it was the most beautifully crafted ceremony that they have ever been to. We feel honored and lucky to have met you both!"

Michelle and Andrew, 07/2007
"Dear Rev. Kessler and Rabbi Paris,
Thank you for sharing our special day with us.  The ceremony was absolutely perfect - so beautiful and unique!  Our family and friends could not stop raving about it!  We enjoyed getting to know you and you'll always hold a special place in our hearts."
Melissa and Abe, 05/2007
"When Brian and I decided to get married we knew there would be challenges with satisfying both our Christian and Jewish faiths. When we first met you we instantly walked away feeling elated about our decision to do an interfaith ceremony. You immediately eased our minds about the challenges we may face and how we can incorporate them positively in our lives. As we met with you over the next few months to create our ceremony, Brian and I became more and more excited about our wedding. We knew each time we met with you we were creating a really memorable day. When the big day came, we were completely prepared and felt at ease. It was a huge relief knowing you were there setting the stage for our wedding. The unique Ketubah Ceremony was an incredible way to start a beautiful day. Everyone who participated in that ceremony were uplifted and moved. So many of our guests, men and woman from different faiths, have pulled us aside to tell us how moving our ceremony was. We can't thank you enough for opening your hearts and showing us that you can work through difficult situations and make them a beautiful and wonderful experience. "
Brian and Sharon, 10/2006
"We wanted to thank you for the most perfect ceremony we could have imagined. It was truly spectacular and we received nothing but the best feedback from our wedding guests. We had always worried how our wedding ceremony would please both of our families--from Jewish and Christian backgrounds. After our meetings and all of your work, you pulled it off so smoothly. Even our most stubborn family members were amazed! We enjoyed getting to know you, and appreciate that you got to know us over the few months leading up to the big day. We loved having both of you be a part of our wedding, and now our lives. Thank you so much again!"
Ali and Josh, 03/2006
"Dear Reverend and Rabbi-First let me just thank you on behalf of Heidi, me, and our families. You crafted a ceremony that was inclusive without being vague, and meaningful without being sentimental. We were very much looking forward to the diverse gathering that our wedding would be, and the ceremony was an appropriate hub around which to center the event. Heidi and I have heard only positive comments about the ceremony from our guests of both the Jewish and Christian traditions...Thank you again for your time, attention and care in preparing our ceremony."
Heidi and Scott, 10/2005
"We felt comfortable with you right from the very first meeting. You took the time to listen to us and to get to know us. You also kept our best interests in mind at all times and truly understood how to conduct a multicultural ceremony that made our families and friends feel included and loved. We feel privileged to have met and worked with such a warm, understanding, and professional team. Your help and guidance during the six months before the wedding contributed greatly to the success and joy on our wedding day. The ceremony itself was just perfect for us. Your ability to take the time and effort to accommodate our wishes, diverse backgrounds, and expectations has touched us deeply. Thank you again for being a part of such an important day in our lives and for your warmth, sensitivity and understanding."
C. & S., 05/2005
"Jerry and I had no idea how we would find the perfect person/persons to perform our wedding ceremony. We interviewed many but it just never seemed right. We needed someone who would help our families and friends see that even though we have different religious backgrounds, we were ready to move forward and bring our two faiths together. More importantly, we wanted my daughter and Jerry's daughter and son to feel just as much as part of the ceremony as we did. We knew immediately upon meeting Reverend Kessler and Rabbi Paris that they were the ones. They not only welcomed us into their home but their hearts as well. They spent hours with us making sure we were ready to accept each other's faiths and that a marriage can work when two people love and believe in each other. They counseled us when we needed guidance about bringing our children together and introducing them to a new home. Our ceremony was perfectly planned. They were so professional and gave us so many ideas on how to bring a piece of each of our religions, our faith and complete commitment to our children into the wedding. The children felt just as much a part of the wedding as Jerry and I did. We and our guests will have memories of those moments burned into our minds and hearts forever. When I speak of my wedding day, it is not about all the glitz and the glam and the big party. It was about our ceremony. We remember every word, every detail and every emotion that we felt while we were married before our family and friends by Reverend Kessler and Rabbi Paris. We were so blessed and will forever be grateful to them."
Vicki and Jerry, 04/2005
"Thank you so much for marrying Todd and me. The ceremony was so beautiful that it not only brought tears of joy and romance to us, but also to those who saw the ceremony performed. You did everything we wanted, gave us advise and added a touch of your own that was so special..."
Alicia and Todd, 10/2004
"I just had another guest tell me how moved they were by our ceremony...Our ceremony felt perfect. I felt completely present and joyful and able to absorb all of the incredible love surrounding me. The bridesmaids circle and the visualization that you led us through brought me back to a place of equilibrium so that I could truly experience and rejoice at our wedding. Danny and I send you so much gratitude for creating a ceremony and a spiritual space that was exactly what we were looking for."
Zia and Daniel, 08/2004
"Before we started with the planning of our wedding, we didn't give much thought to the ceremony aspect...we figured we would get a justice of the peace or someone who would just take care of the legalities. Coming from different religions, we thought that maybe we would go that route so as not to foster any hard feelings towards our families. However, we thought about it again and decided that an interfaith minister or couple would only enhance our celebration. We came to Rev. Kessler and Rabbi Paris rather serendipitously, but it was beshert (meant to be...). In hindsight, we could not imagine our wedding without them-they gave us a ceremony that was personal, unique and honoring of both heritages. They took so much time to talk and meet with us and get to know us so that our marriage ceremony was real. Our Ketubah ceremony was emotional and honored our parents. They kept us in the moment and that made all the difference. We know that Rev. Kessler and Rabbi Paris didn't just marry us and perform the legalities. Rather, they looked out for us and let us know that when the wedding was over and married life began, they were still going to be there. And for that, we are so thankful!"
Sachiko and Adam, 08/2004
"Words cannot begin to express how incredibly special and meaningful you made the most important day of our life. With patience, understanding and love, you seamlessly combined our faiths, personalities and hearts into a wedding ceremony that touched each and every person at our wedding. You taught both us and our families to always look to add to the richness of our lives by combining the special qualities of our respective faiths - "Never instead, always in addition." Thanks to you, our wedding day was a dream come true, filled with happiness, faith, laughter, and of course, love!"
Danielle and Bryan, 07/2004
"Soon after the exciting day that Alon asked me to marry him, I began wondering what type of wedding ceremony would be possible between an Israeli and an American, living abroad in Spain, with our combination of Jewish and non-Jewish backgrounds. Upon the first correspondence with Rev. Enid Kessler and Rabbi Stuart Paris, it became abundantly clear to us that whatever barriers in our cultural differences we thought might pose challenges, would instead become blended by Enid and Stuart into a complementary expression of our love, traditions and values. Because of their professionalism, sincerity and dedication I had not only peace of mind when planning my wedding, but a joyful anticipation of what I knew would be, and was, the best day of our lives. I am still being told by our friends and family who came to Spain from all over the world, that our wedding was the most moving ceremony they had witnessed, and this is from people of different religions, different languages and different countries. I will always be grateful to Enid and Stuart for their guidance throughout the planning of the ceremony, and of course for officiating a ceremony that can only be described as otherworldly, because of how magical and beautiful it was. I cannot think of a better way to begin married life, than from the starting point of the wedding of your dreams."
Genevieve and Alon, 07/2004
"Steven and I thank you from the bottom of our hearts for helping to give us the most special and meaningful wedding day. Our guests and family spoke of it for months, that they had never witnessed a ceremony as beautiful and as loving as ours. We are blessed to have you in our lives and look forward to the day that we can celebrate with you again"
Wendy and Steven, 05/2004
"It was a pleasure meeting you and having you be a part of our commitment ceremony. Your poise, demeanor and spirituality contributed to our ceremony being more than we could've ever imagined. The warmth and friendliness you showed during our first meeting was overwhelming. We had no doubt from the beginning that you would do a wonderful job officiating our union, but you by far exceeded our expectations. The ceremony that you wrote, for us was very beautiful and encompassed every aspect of our individuality, culture and commitment to one another. So many people approached us afterwards to express how lovely the ceremony was and how well it was conveyed and articulated. Much thanks and gratitude."
Mirna and Theresa, 03/2004
"Our wedding day was the most special day of our lives. Both Michael and I wanted the ceremony to capture our special love and relationship. During the entire process Rev. Kessler worked together with us and created a ceremony that was loving, spiritual and absolutely wonderful. We met with Rev. Kessler and she really guided us with sample ceremonies, readings and poems. Our celebration was so meaningful to our family and guests. They truly shared in the celebration and everyone felt the love and enthusiasm that was exuded during the wedding."
Nancy and Michael, 01/2004
"Thank you so much for officiating our wedding ceremony. It was even more beautiful than we expected. Everyone keeps telling us it was the most touching ceremony they have ever attended. You were wonderful."
Nicole and David, 08/2003
"Wow! We cannot thank you enough for everything...Thank you for all your work on our beautiful, perfect ceremony!! You really created such special memories for us!! It was perfect...and you are are always so calming, soothing, peaceful.....we love it. THANK YOU!!"
Stacey and Scott, 08/2003
"Dear Rabbi Paris, Thank you to you and your wife for sharing your ideas of "in addition to, not instead of!" You brought that ideal of life for us on our wedding day, not sure what we would have done without you. We really appreciate all of your advice, guidance & friendship."
Stacey and Bill, 08/2003
"Where to begin? You made our wedding ceremony all we wanted it to be (and more!) ? every guest complimented the ceremony on how touching it had been. Thank you for making it so special."
Natasha and Stefan, 07/2003
"Through her warmth and obvious concern for our happiness, Rev. Kessler helped us plan a memorable ceremony tailored to our specific needs. She seamlessly incorporated both our faiths into the ceremony and made everyone involved feel an integral part of the day. She also did something that anyone who has experienced a wedding knows is extremely rare: she pleased both the bride's and groom's family. Neither we, nor our family, could have imagined the beautiful ceremony that Rev. Kessler performed and so many of our guests commented on what a wonderful service she created for us. Rev. Kessler earned our eternal gratitude for putting together a ceremony that perfectly captured and expressed our love for each other."
Diana and Adam, 07/2003
"We want to thank you so much for being part of Robyn and PJ's marriage. Your thoughtful, beautiful ceremony will always be a wonderful memory for us and them?"
Adrienne and Richard (parents of the bride), 06/2003
"We just wanted to thank you both again for a magical ceremony. It was everything we ever dreamed of and more."
Eva and Matthew, 06/2003
"Just when we thought things could not get any better, you added a wonderful, loving, spiritual, dimension to the happiest day of our lives."

This wedding was featured in New York Newsday

Debra and Richard, 06/2003
"We just wanted to write you a note to say Thank you for performing our wedding ceremony. Feliks and I really enjoyed working with you on it and you did the most amazing job! We couldn't have imagined a nicer, more meaningful ceremony. We got compliments from every person at the wedding about how touched they were with the ceremony. Thank you so much for such a fine job."
Amy and Feliks, 05/2003
"Thank you so much for making our wedding so special. The ceremony that you put together for us was beautiful and it was definitely the highlight of the evening--it was just perfect."
Nancy and Kevin, 03/2003
"Words cannot express how grateful we are that you officiated our wedding. Your suggestions were so helpful and your delivery was so special? We very much appreciate your incredibly thoughtful ceremony?"
Yvette and Daniel, 09/2002
"Enid, you made our ceremony beautiful and amazing. Thank you for all of your time, love and support. You are a wonderful person and I am so happy to have you in our lives."
Amy and Michael, 07/2001
"Thank you! Each day that passes affirms that you are the best celebrant on earth. Everything was perfect?each time we watch the video?or look at pictures or even talk about the wedding, we talk about how lucky we were to have you officiate our wedding. Forever and ever you will have a warm place in our hearts. You were our officiant, but also our counselor, a calming force. We are eternally grateful to you for giving us a dream wedding. Everything you said was perfect and it felt just right-it was us-just the right balance of things. We received so many compliments and good feedback about the ceremony thanks to you."
Jodi and Fred, 08/2000

We just received the videotape of the wedding?although we, of course were present at the ceremony, we were too overcome with the importance of the occasion to concentrate on what was said. However, after watching the videotape we really appreciate the beauty of the service you performed. Thank you so much for making Jodi's wedding so special.
Adele and Shelly (parents of the bride), 08/2000